The Master Nebula said: Share the story: Luo Bingzhang, who was in the late Qing Dynasty, had a small monk named Zhangquan. His family was cold and he was dependent on the old mother who was disabled. After Luo Bingzhang learned of it, he ordered his nephew to send rice to Zhang Quan's home every month.
One day, when the nephew reported to Luo Bingzhang that he wanted to leave, Luo Bingzhang suddenly called him: "Did you send rice to Zhang's family this month? "The nephew replied in surprise:" No. Didn't he stop working for you last month? After Luo Bingzhang listened, he got up and poured a cup of hot tea, put it on the stove, and then took his nephew to the garden for a walk. When they returned to the study, Luo Bingzhang handed the still warm cup of tea to his nephew. After the nephew drank, he could not help smiling. Warm tea made him feel comfortable.
Luo Bingzhang then asked: "When you pour the tea and leave, and then come back, do you want the tea to become cold or still warm? "The nephew said:" Of course, hope is still warm. "
Luo Bingzhang nodded and said: "That's right. Zhang Quangang left and is not yet settled. It is the most busy time. We 'll help him a few more times, and it's not too late to let him off the hook. Why let the tea cool off when people leave? "The nephew got up and said yes and quickly sent rice.
Beyond human nature.
The so-called "Hee Hee in the world, all for the benefit of; The hustle and bustle of the world is all for profit. "It means that the people of the world flocked to the world for the sake of interests. For the sake of interests, they all run for the sake of their own interests. This also proves that" people go to tea. "The truth.
As soon as a person leaves, the tea will be cold, which is the law of nature; People just go, tea will be cool, but it is the world is cool. A cup of tea, Buddhism saw Zen, Taoism saw gas, Confucianism saw ceremony, merchants saw profit.
However, if a person wants to protect the benefits, money, and status obtained are human feelings, then it is even more valuable to be able to preserve the psychology of the general public on the basis of this "human nature". There is a saying that "the more you think of people, the more you have; Even with people, the more we have, "we seem to send a cup of tea to those who have left today. What we want to renew may be a good relationship in the future, and it is also good for us. Then why save yourself a cup of hot tea?
Creating a win-win situation
People in the world is to create a double-win situation, not only for themselves, but also for people. There is a saying that "with gold intersection, gold consumption is forgotten; Elie intersects, and when it is done, it is scattered; With the potential intersection, the potential is inclined; Intersection with power, loss of power is abandoned; Intersection with feelings, the death of people hurt; Subjective intersection, quiet travel far. "
Tea said: "I am a glass of water, only give your imagination," the heart is tea, tea is the heart, a cup of tea, refraction of the world. Do you want to achieve the profits of the merchants, or the Confucian rites, or the Zen Buddhism, or the Taoist anger? It depends entirely on how you look at it, and people go away. Tea is not cold. It is the high realm of life.